Do you ever find yourself comparing yourself to others, or attempting to live up to a mythical ideal?
i'm 27yrs old. in a couple of weeks i will be 28yrs old and i am always comparing myself to others, i am always looking at other women and saying, she is so much more "together" than i am, prettier than i am, more confident than i am.
recently i was challenged to stop being so hard on myself and love me for who i am. lmao, if that just isn't the hardest thing ever to do for me. i still look in the mirror and see things that i would love to change about myself.
even outside of the physical appearance i do also try to live up to the "ideal" of what i should be, a submissive woman who can cook, clean, and have everything together for her master. lmao, i hardly have everything together for myself.
but i am working on loving me for who i am, i look in the mirror now and i say to myself that i love me for who i am right now. what more can i ask for?
1 comment:
Hi jessica marie,
Did you ever stop to think that maybe some of these women who are "put together" have their own internal struggles? Maybe they're looking at women who are students and feeling like they don't measure up educationally? Everybody has things they're insecure about, the key is to change what you can and accept what you can't and not let it take over.
hugs,
jade
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